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I've never been so close to deleting social media in my life, you guys, and last night, I came so close. And why? Because I actually let two different people get to me. I've had my Facebook for a very long time and I've lived with the policy of it's my page, I'll post what I want for my own reasons. Sometimes, especially when I'm into something something hardcore (currently that would be Guardians of the Galaxy specifically the third volume) I will post something closely related but not exactly.

I changed my profile picture after the movie to reflect the message it portrayed to me and wrote the appropriate message and started what I think is the most ridiculous disagreement I think I've ever been in with someone I thought was lot smarter than that. To spare them the embarassment, I won't share the screenshot here though I did share it with a couple of close friends. I was pissed off at their insinuations, and hurt. and for what? Cause I decided I wanted a certain character to be the face of change? Again, I have to be a bit vague here.

Next, and probably because I've been watching a lot of wildlife rescue videos lately on Reels and stuff, I came across an otter video. It's a rescued otter that lives with a human and her cat. She is so cute, and can't sleep without her ginger cat. So I shared with Wrekko Player, Joe Squirrel, and my page, and typed "It's so cute!" Now, again, I'm a bit into otters right now, thanks to Guardians of the Galaxy 3. So of course I'm gonna share. So a few hours later, i get a response, and like anyone else...or most people, I guess, I anxiously go check, only to have this, "they're mean, and have sharp teeth and are dangerous." Um. Wow. Okay. That may be true but can't anyone just enjoy a cute video anymore? Why ruin it for others?

This person often does this to me, too. I remember one time I put a pic of Teal up and she tried to tell me my cat had mange and she needed the vet. apparently, she'd missed my other posts and I had to explain again that ,NO, Teal doesn't have mange, she's got psychogenic alopecia, there's very little we can do about it beyond being patient with her, and giving her as much love as we can. This person just is constantly finding something negative to say about posts and it's finally just gotten on my nerves, I think.




But Facebook isn't my ownly problem. The last three weeks, I've come across no less than 4 articles trying to cancel Beatrix Potter. Yes, you read that correctly. Cancel. Beatrix. Potter. Now. I read all 4 of them. Usually i don't read the articles because any time I see anything attacking something i love I try to ignore it (except when I don't and rant to my friends about it...right, lj-user="sarajayechan">? LOL ) but because I've been trying to learn the history behind these stories especially Beatrix herself, I read them. Well. Here is the scoop. They want her cancelled because neither she or her estate ever acknowledged that Peter Rabbit was supposedly borrowed from tales by enslaved individuals.

Now, I'm gonna tell you guys. I've read both The Tale of Peter Rabbit and Bre'er Rabbit (which is what they're referring to here). The only similarity I can honestly see is the fact they're both rabbits. Now perhaps it's because I'm white. Maybe it's because I don't want to see it? But to be honest, the only character I can see maybe being borrowed at all could be Mr. Tod. He could possibly be Bre'r Fox. But then again, all foxes are crafty and sneaky, so I'd say that was a thin argument at best.

I just wonder why these things come out of nowhere. Some things are warranted, I get it. But Beatrix Potter has been gone for many many years now. I don't know what they think bringing this up now will do. Even if it is true.

Look, I'm not saying it isn't, but it's a stretch in my personal opinon, and I'm not just saying that because I have a recent personal connection with the 2018 nad 2021 movie adaptations... I swear. I'm really just emotionally and mentally exhausted of all the random stuff I love coming out as "bad" or having "done sometihng wrong". That's not saying it's not true. I'm just kinda... over it. Can't we just have nice things anymore?
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Eventually I plan to get back to the "Wonderland" discussion I was having, but today you're getting a rant. It's two fold, so hold on to your seats.

First, as you know I was out all day yesterday so by the time I got home all I wanted to do was read and relax. Well that didn't happen because Mom and I got into it about the state of my rooms. (Yes I have two that I maintain. One is my bedroom, the other is my craft room/library.)So that ruined my reading mood completely because I was pissed that Daddy thought that if I could go out and spend money I could clean my rooms the next day. Um. Generally speaking, that's not how it works.

Ask anyone who's known me for any length of time they'll tell you that when I go out all day, the next day I am pretty drained. There are rare exceptions to this (such as when I went out and stuff for vacation stuff back in April, and doing things with my family and friends last month). But even then I rested and slept a lot when I wasn't out and about. Even Valerie and Lissa can tell you that I did that in California.

I've been like this for the better part of my late 20s into my 30s. Its a progression of my disability. It's not going to do anything but get worse, and I'm well aware of that. I just wish my Mom and Dad would realize it. It just really pissed me off last night. I DID get my rooms done save for vacuuming. I can't vacuum right now due to stomach issues.

Rant number two has me dealing with his ageism bullshit, yet again. So one of my purchases yesterday was my Rocket plushie from Build A Bear. A find, in my opinion since ROcket Plushies are rare outside of places such as Build a Bear. So I was trying to explain why I got Rocket instead of Wickett. The explanation was that the ewoks didn't sell very well , so they didn't order more. The same fate is happening to ROcket and anything Guardians of the Galaxy related. Ask me if I'm really surprised by this, though.

Anyway, back to Daddy C. I showed him Rocket. Now I wasn't expecting a *hug* reaction, but someting a little less than, 'I have a penis, darling, I don't get excited by stuffed animals' would've been nice. There are plenty of GUYS who are not GAY who like stuffed animals. (That's a stereotype I wish he'd fucking knock off, but you can't change him. He's too old). At the very least appreciate it for being Guardians of the Galaxy merchandise and not something more "Childish" like Disney or My Little Pony. (By the way, I'm not saying those things are childish. This is just what he thinks, and I'm being sarcastic).

So I told him that the ewoks no longer existed, and his reaction was that he'd given up. Nick was 33, and he needed to grow up, too. Like, seriously? What are you trying to say? People who collect toys/stuffed animals aren't grown ups? Hell, I'd be lost without some of the stuffed animals I have. They've been long time companions and you can't convince me otherwise.

As it was, considering his reaction to Rocket, I took that statement to mean he wishes I'd grow up and find different interests. Um. You BITCH when I'm watching court shows, You BITCH when I watch Law and Order: SVU (or any of the Law and Order/crime shows I've gotten into over the years) You BITCH when I watch anything less than R rated (and even some of the R rated stuff). I can't fucking win with you.

I know he'll never change, but goddamn it, I deserve to not feel like I should be ashamed for my interests. Marvel interests should be considered an improvement in his book, right? I bet he doesn't think of it that way because he's ROcket's a plushie? But I've liked Rocket since BEFORE I saw Guardians at all, so...maybe cause he's so cute? (Yes, I know, you don't like being called cute, Rocket. I can't help it!)

Gonna go now. .Probably need to lay down and let my stomach settled.

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